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Blount Nurses for Health Education, Inc. (BNHE) is a non-profit organization based in Blount County, Tennessee. BNHEs motto (professionals dedicated to providing vital medical information for healthier lives and better choices) summarizes our organization.
We have witnessed hundreds of young peoples lives permanently ruined because of poor decisions in their teen years for a few minutes of sex. These permanent life changes have included:
The government and the news media have tried to sell young people on safe sex through condom use. These programs have failed. Health officials and more and more young people now realize that the ONLY complettely safe sex is sex between a man and woman who share a truly monogamous marriage (a marriage in which each partner is sexually faithful to the other).
BNHE presents scientifically correct, no-nonsense, completely true and accurate medical facts to junior high school and high school students in Blount County schools and churches. Read our Web site carefully. Contact us, if you have questions. Our only agenda is the physical and emotional welfare of young people in our county.
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| MESSAGE BOARD |
| FEMALE: PUTS GOD AND FAMILY BEFORE SELF |
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| I am 15 years old
and a very strong believer in abstinence until marriage. The main reasons I have
chosen to stay abstinent are because I am a Christian and I have given my virginity
to God until my honeymoon, and I am very committed to sticking to this; also, I want
to make my parents proud, and I dont want to disappoint them by getting pregnant or
getting a disease. I would like my honeymoon to be something I can cherish instead of
knowing Ive been with someone else. Plus, I do not want a STD or anything of the
sort. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and he, too, believes
in abstinence. Its very important to find someone who believes in the same thing as
you and respects you for it, no matter how cute or sweet he is. I encourage all teens
to stay abstinent because if you do, you will have a wonderful life and marriage
and wont ever have to look back on the past and think bad thoughts. Abstinence =
happiness!
Z |
| FEMALE: FOUND LOVE FROM SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS HER |
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| Hi! Im
17 years old. I dated a guy I thought was the love of my life two years
ago. He pressured me to have sex. I thought it was wrong, and I was afraid
of getting pregnant. I refused. He broke up with me and started dating
someone else. I was heart-broken. Six months after our breakup, I met J.
J respected me, and said he would also save sex for marriage. I cant
tell you how happy we are. Were perfect for each other in every way! We
hope to get married some day. Im so happy Im saving myself for marriage.
I dont even remember whats-his name now. K |
| MALE: ABSTINENT AND TOTALLY ENJOYING HIGH SCHOOL |
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| Hey
there. Guys can practice abstinence, too. I am. And, Im having a great
time in high school and have a lot of friends of both sexes. C |
| FEMALE: CAN NEVER BECOME PREGNANT BECUASE OF SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE |
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| I am not
a teenager (I am 35 years old), but I want to tell you about myself. When
I was in high school, I had a bad home life (abusive, drunken father) and
low self-esteem. I was searching for love, wherever I could find it. I
was very pretty, and boys flocked to me. I was flattered by their
attention, and thought they loved me. I had sex with just about anyone
who asked me out. I developed a sexual disease, but I did not know it
then. Years later, I met G. He and I fell in love— this time true
love! We married, and we are very happy. Ten years ago, we tried to start a
family. After two years of trying with no success, I went to a doctor. She
told me that an infection I had as a teenager had scarred my tubes and
pelvis so much that I can NEVER become pregnant. I did not even
know I had an infection while I was dating in high school. I have no idea
which of my many dates gave it to me. G and I were lucky enough to be
able to adopt a beautiful little girl four years ago, and we love her with
all our hearts. But, I wish I had not mistaken love in high school and
had waited for G. I made a mistake in high school that I will sadly
remember all of my life. M |
| FEMALE: TEENAGE PREGNANCY LIMITS PRESENT AND FUTURE PLANS |
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| Im a
high school senior. I got pregnant before I was 14 and had my baby at 14.
I never considered abortion because of my religious beliefs. I love my
little boy and Im so proud of him. But, I cant tell you how hard it has
been to attend classes, try to study some, and care for him. I cant even
think about going to college. My sister is a junior in my high school. Im
really happy she hasnt gotten pregnant, but sometimes Im jealous of her.
She goes out on dates, attends games and proms, and does all of the fun
things I should have been able to do, while I stay home taking care of my
little boy. I lost my youth because of a few minutes I spent with a guy in
the back seat of his car. He wont even speak to me now! How I wish I
could have those few minutes back so that I could have my youth back!
Dont make the same mistake I made! PLEASE! A |
| MALE: FOUND RESPECT FOR YOUNG WOMEN (SOMEONE ELSES SISTERS) |
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| I am a
junior at ***** High School. I once was hooked on Internet porn. The
summer before I started ninth grade, all I could think about was finding
babes who would have sex with me. I heard your program in the ninth grade.
It started me thinking. I have a younger sister, and I dont want guys
hitting on her. Any girl I would hit on is someone elses sister. I
decided to save myself for marriage. I hope there is someone out there who
is saving herself for our marriage. T |
| FEMALE: CONTRACTED GONORRHEA FROM AN OLDER MAN |
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| Hi! Im
14, but physically I look like Im 18 or 20. Last summer I met a man who
is 25. He showered me with attention and convinced me to have sex. (He
knew I was only 14 because he joked about hoping I wouldnt cause him to
go to jail.) I was flattered that I was so sexually attractive to a man at
my age. I started having severe abdominal pains. My parents took me to my
doctor. I had gonorrhea! My parents were totally devastated. I was so
embarrassed and hurt. My doctor thinks he started the antibiotic in time
to prevent future complications for me. Oh, the man who loved me so
much? He has moved on to someone else my age. My doctor told me that many
of the young teenage girls he treats for gonorrhea obtained the disease
from men in their twenties. Im a lot wiser now. I date only guys my age,
and I will not have sex again until Im married. L |
| FEMALE: DATE RAPED AFTER DRINKING BEER |
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| Im a
high school senior. Last summer, my boyfriend and I went with several
other couples to the lake. Some of the guys brought coolers of beer. I was
curious to know what beer tasted like, so I tried a can. That can led to
another and another
until I passed out. I woke up as my boyfriend was
finishing raping me. I was too embarrassed to tell my parents or the
sheriff. I have been depressed ever since the rape. I had always been a
good girl and had planned to stay a virgin until marriage. My
EX-boyfriend bragged to all my friends about having sex with me. I
went from people thinking of me as virtuous to easy. I would never have
had sex with this creep, if I had not passed out from the beer and gotten
into a situation where I couldnt control his sexual advances. I want to
tell teens everywhere (especially young women)— do not use drugs and
alcohol on a date. They cause you to lose control. You will do things to
others or let others do things to you that you would never think of doing
if you were sober. Believe me. I know from sad experience how this can
happen and how a few cans of beer can totally wreck a life. M |
| FEMALE: LOSING VIRGINITY IS HER WORST MISTAKE |
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| Im 18
years old, and a senior in high school. I support abstinence for many
important reasons: it prevents STDs, pregnancy, and the biggest one is
because premarital sex can ruin your emotions. I know because I was forced
into losing my virginity when I was 15 years old. After I lost my
virginity, I felt like I was already ruined. So saying yes was not hard
for me any more. I had been told a lie! My boyfriend and I broke up after
going out for nearly 3 years. I was so upset because he had taken the most
special thing of mine, and I could never get it back. I became lonely and
needy, so I tried to find happiness through other relationships. Every
time I was with another person, I gave a part of myself away until I felt
like nothing. I was searching for love in all the wrong places. Sex
outside of marriage causes jealousy, anger, insecurity, resentment, and
many other emotional problems— like depression! I know because Ive been
there.
True love is respect, trust, and understanding. If you have already
lost your virginity, try secondary virginity. Please start over! You are
Worth Waiting For! The Word of God says, Behold, old things are passed
away, all things are made new. God made me a new person. He healed all
the hurt inside of me. He can heal you, too! |
| MALE: TEENAGE PREGNANCY CAUSED HIM TO MARRY SOMEONE HE DID NOT TRULY LOVE |
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| I am the
father of a student who has accessed your Web site as research for a
school paper, and I happened to see it. We live in a state other than
yours, but I think you may be interested in my experience with teenage
sex. I want to word this carefully so that my child will never know I
wrote it to you. My wife and I dated casually in high school. We had a
one night stand, and she became pregnant. I did the honorable thing and
married her so that our baby would not be born out of wedlock. I had to
cancel all my plans for my life after high school to get a job to support
my family. I love my children dearly, and my wife is a good woman. But, my
wife and I are not suited for each other. We have grown in different
directions. Divorce is out of the question. We tolerate each other for the
childrens sake, but I do not believe we love each other as we should. I
think occasionally, if I had not had sex that night, I might today have a
wife and job better suited for me. I just want young people to know that
sex, love, marriage, and children should come to a person at the proper
time in life, after careful thought and preparation. Please do not use my
real name, if you tell anyone about me. X |
| FEMALE: ADVICE FROM A HIGH SCHOOL SENIOR |
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| In my
eighteen years, Ive only had a handful of boyfriends. Having a boyfriend
was not the most important thing in my life. I am my own person, and I
have had time to grow and learn more about being me. I remember times I
wanted a boyfriend— someone special to have as my own and someone who
would listen to me. But, I—ve learned from experience that you cant be
searching for someone. You wont find him if youre looking. He only comes
along when you least expect it. But not having a boyfriend is not the end
of the world. At times he can be a distraction. Dont live your life
waiting for someone else. Live your own life and get on track with what
you want to do (and what God wants you to do), and he may just happen to
come along some day.
Everyone knows dating can be fun. But it holds its share of heartaches.
Some of my hardest days were after a breakup. A lot of pain is involved—
and a lot of emotion (especially for girls). I found that the only thing
that could get me through these times was God. I was so dependent on Him.
Nothing else would have worked. In my dating relationships, I have never
had a desire for sex. As a Christian I looked for other Christians who
felt the same way I did and had the same morals. Ive known since I was
young that I wanted to wait until marriage for sex. First, I knew it was
not in Gods will for me to have sex before marriage. He said it was
wrong, and I wanted to stay in His will. Second, there are so many risks
involved. Pregnancy, disease, emotional attachment— I couldnt and still
cant handle these things. Third, I wanted to save myself for my future
husband. I wanted to be able to give him something that I had saved for
him and no one else. My marriage will be holy in Gods eyes because I have
waited. This is the way He designed it. |
Why sexual activity only within marriage? Society and almost all religions have promoted sexual activity only within marriage for three reasons:
You, like most teens, are probably anxious to try sex. But, you can wait. Sex in marriage without guilt and disease, producing only wanted children at a time they can be afforded, is beautiful. This is the only sex for which you should settle because YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
The problem with teen sex in Blount County: Is there a problem with
teen sex in Blount County? Most definitely, yes.
Blount County healthcare professionals (physicians and nurses) and
public-health officials are alarmed at the large number of teens in this county
who suffer the consequences of teen sexual behavior each year. Our countys
teens have a very high rate of problems arising from sexual behavior, and this
rate is increasing.
We could fill this Web site with statistics. If you are more interested, the
statistics are readily available for you. But, columns of statistics are boring.
We look at each case of a bad consequence of teen sexual behavior as an
individual needing love and help, not as a statistic. We look at you as someone
we want to help avoid a life-changing mistake, not as a statistic.
Safe sex: America has spent billions of dollars over the past few
years on a safe sex educational campaign. In many ways, this campaign has
failed. Teen pregnancies, infections, abortions, and emotional damage are still
extremely common and increasing in number throughout Blount County and America.
Smart people know that when something doesnt work, something else needs to
be tried. Smart people know that safe sex through condom use has many
failures. Smart people know that the only truly safe sex, the only sex which has
no failures, and the only sex that has no side effects is sexual abstinence
until marriage. Teens practicing sexual abstinence until marriage do not become
statistics in public health reports.
Youre smart enough to know that the only truly safe sex. is abstinence
until marriage. Youre smart enough to know that YOURE WORTH WAITING
FOR!
There never was, is, or will be another you: Youre unique. From the
DNA sequences of your chromosomes to your fingerprint patterns, theres no one
like you now— and theres never been nor will there ever be anyone like you.
A great gift: You, as a unique person, have been given a great gift.
This gift is the ability to pass life, containing part of your unique nature, to
the next generation.
This gift of sex and reproduction can best be appreciated and enjoyed if you
share it with a spouse who has saved his or her gift of sex and love just for
you.
The lie of popular culture: Popular culture may trick you into
believing you should give away this wonderful gift by having sex before you are
married.
Dont fall for the lies of the popular culture. With premature use of your
gift (engaging in sex before marriage), you can suffer serious consequences,
such as teenage pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, permanent infertility
and sterility, and emotional scarring.
The following two poems summarize attitudes about sex and marriage. In the
womans poem, she succumbed to sex before marriage, and gained only heartache.
In the mans poem, he respected the woman he loved, and gained a lifetime of
happiness. Dont waste your gift: Youll be in your twenties soon. Dont waste
your gift of love and reproduction in your teens on someone you wont even
remember in a few years. Wait for marriage before having sex. Sex, based on love
in marriage, is worth waiting for. And, most definitely, YOURE WORTH WAITING
FOR!
What is a virgin? A virgin is a male or female who has
never had sex. There is no physical sign to tell if a male is a virgin. Many cultures have
used the presence of a hymen (a crescent-shaped flap of tissue at the opening of
the vagina) as a physical sign to prove that a female is a virgin. The absence
of a hymen is not always a reliable sign that a female is not a virgin, however,
because a hymen can be stretched or torn in ways other than sexual intercourse,
or may be difficult to see in some females because it is small and
underdeveloped. Virginity- sexual purity of the body and mind: True virginity involves
sexual purity of the body and mind. If you save yourself sexually for your wedding bed, you will give your
husband or wife something no one else in the world can have and something that
shows the love you have for your spouse is unique and special. Your gift in
marriage of yourself sets the high standard for behavior you expect for yourself
and your spouse throughout marriage. If you and your spouse are virgins at
marriage, there are no memories to compete with, no guilt, no remorse, and
nothing to confess. Popular culture would have you believe that there is something wrong with you
if you remain a virgin— that you are frigid, or weird, or a prude. People who
make mistakes in life tend to want other people to make the same mistakes so
that they wont feel alone. (Misery loves company.) If movie stars,
musicians, and athletes are sexually promiscuous and have messed up their lives with a
string of sexual conquests, they try to validate their own mistaken, twisted
lives by convincing themselves and others that everyone is doing it.
Why virginity? Millions of teens who have been the victims of
infections, unplanned pregnancies, and lifetimes of emotional distress testify
to the lies of the popular culture. Today, millions of teens throughout the country see through these lies and
have learned from the mistakes of others. They choose to remain virgins (to
remain sexually abstinent) until marriage. This choice is a beautiful thing. If you have not started having sex, you can
make this choice and experience this beauty in your own life. YOURE WORTH
WAITING FOR! Mistakes- a part of life: Mistakes are part of the lives of every
person who has lived in the past, or who lives now, or who will ever live. If
you have made mistakes in your own life, welcome to the human race.
One of your mistakes may have been that you have been sexually active in the
past, and you now regret it.
Solution for a past sexual mistake: There is a simple solution for
you. Join the many thousands of teens throughout the country who consider
themselves reclaimed (or secondary) virgins. These teens, recognizing the
mistakes they have made, have determined from this time forward until they marry
they will not have sex again. They have chosen abstinence until marriage and
have reclaimed their virginity.
Virginity- reclaimed or secondary: Virginity is both physical and
mental. You cant undo past physical acts, but you can face the future with
physical and mental purity.
When you reclaim your virginity by choosing abstinence until marriage, you
immediately prevent any future exposure to unplanned pregnancy, sexually
transmitted diseases (STDs), and the hollow despair and haunting memories of
failed relationships. You free yourself from a great burden imposed upon you by
sexual activity outside of marriage.
If you have been sexually active and reclaim your virginity, please visit a
healthcare facility or the health department. You need a physical examination.
You need a Pap smear to check for HPV infection. You may need other tests to be
sure you do not have other STDs.
Then, enjoy life until you meet that special person you want to share your
life with, because YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
What is sex? A very basic question needs to be answered: What is sex?
Sex is two people using the sexual organs of one or both persons to achieve a
pleasurable outcome.
Sex involving a male and a female is called HETEROSEXUAL. Heterosexual sex is
also called STRAIGHT SEX.
Sex involving two males or two females is called HOMOSEXUAL. Male homosexuals
are commonly called GAYS. Female homosexuals are commonly called LESBIANS.
A person who has sex with both males and females is called BISEXUAL.
Sex generally is classified according to the organs involved:
Any of these sexual practices can spread a sexually transmitted disease from
one person to the other. A one-time sexual encounter, no matter how brief, is
sufficient to spread an infection.
KISSING ON THE LIPS is not considered sex by most persons, although
uncommonly could spread a STD.
Suggestions for safe dating: These thirty-six suggestions for safe
dating have been modified from recommendations developed by CHATT (Chattanooga
Adolescent Awareness Team):
In other words, your present sex partner may have been infected by a former
partner, who was in turn infected by a former partner, and so on. If you have
found someone with whom you can experience casual sex without marriage, has this
partner slept around with other persons besides you?
To better understand this problem, picture a tree. You are the trunk. Each of
your sex partners is a different limb attached to you (the trunk). Each of your
sex partners (the limbs) may also have had sex partners, which branch from them
as limbs. Each of your sex partners former sex partners also have had sex
partners (other limbs branching from them), and so on.
In this illiustration of the tree, one bad limb— one infected sex
partner— may infect subsequent sex partners, passing the infection from limb to limb,
until the infection reaches the trunk— you.
These former sex partners who may pass an infection to you are not
necessarily bad or evil people. STDs do not always produce recognizable
symptoms. A person may unknowingly infect his or her sex partner with a STD.
It is this silent passing of bacteria and viruses during the sex act that
causes so many persons today to be infected with a STD.
If you have had multiple sex partners and your sex partners in turn have had
multiple sex partners, you have been exposed to the sexual activity of dozens of
persons, any one of whom may transmit a STD to you.
Some of these persons may also be involved in intravenous drug usage. Viruses
may be obtained through the drug habit (contaminated needles), but passed to the
next person through sexual intercourse.
What is truly safe sex? The safest of all sexual practice is:
Is it time for you to take control of your future and prevent becoming
infected with one or more STDs? You can do this by determining to remain a
virgin until marriage, or to reclaim secondary virginity until marriage.
EXPLANATION: In the following sections, we will
discuss some of the symptoms that may be present in just seven of the more
common sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). There are more STDs that we have
not included. This discussion is for information only, and not for
self-diagnosis. If you feel you have a STD, however, seek medical attention
promptly.
Tables in the following discussion of STDs are color coded for convenience:
Is there a problem with teen sex in Blount County?
Why Youre Worth Waiting For!
A womans poem
A mans poem
I met him; I liked him.
I saw her; I liked her.
I liked him; I loved him.
I loved her; I wanted her.
I loved him; I let him.
I asked her; she said No!
I let him; I lost him.
I married her.
After 60 years, I still have
her.
Practicing abstinence until marriage:
the beauty of
virginity
Starting over:
the value of secondary (reclaimed)
virginity
What is sex?
Safe dating suggestions
Risk of STD related to number of sex partners
Dr. C.
Everett Koop, former U.S. Surgeon General, said, When you have sex with
someone, you are having sex with everyone [he or she has] had sex with for the
last ten years, and everyone they and their partners have had sex with for the
last ten years.
| Symptoms which may be experienced by MALES. | |
| Symptoms which may be experienced by FEMALES. | |
| Symptoms which may be experienced by both MALES and FEMALES. | |
| Symptoms which may be experienced by NEWBORN INFANTS (passed to him or her by an infected mother). |
AIDS stands for the acquired
immunodeficiency syndrome.
What is the cause? AIDS is caused by a virus— HIV (human
immunodeficiency virus).
How is it spread? HIV is spread by blood or secretions from an
infected person coming into contact with another persons skin or mucous
membranes (surfaces of the body not lined by skin). HIV may be spread in any of
these ways:
How common is it? The number of people infected with AIDS is
increasing in Blount County. Throughout the U.S.A. and especially in some parts
of the world (sub-Saharan Africa and southeast Asia), AIDS is rampant, causing
epidemics which may virtually wipe out some countries.
What may be the symptoms?
What is the treatment? There is no way of eradicating HIV from the
body or of curing AIDS. Intensive (many pills each day) and expensive drug
therapy may slow the progress of the disease.
What is the prevention? No AIDS vaccine is available. An AIDS vaccine
may not be developed for many years, if at all. Prevention rests solely on
personal responsibility:
Dont become a victim of AIDS and die at a young age from this infection.
YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
MALES AND FEMALES (Partial List of
Symptoms)
HIV, spread from one
person to another, must enter the body through a break (cut, scratch, skin
irritation, sore, needle stick) in the skin or mucous membrane (a
surface of the body not covered by skin). HIV travels to local lymph
nodes, where the virus begins reproducing itself. Early in the infection,
there may be non-specific symptoms resembling influenza (flu) or
infectious mononucleosis (mono). For a relatively long time, the virus
remains latent (hidden), living and slowly dividing in the lymph nodes
without producing symptoms. This latent period may last for seven to ten
years in older children and adults, but is shorter in newborn infants and
older adults. Slowly, the lymph nodes (which form a major part of the
bodys immune system) are destroyed by this viral infection. As the bodys
immune system becomes destroyed, HIV spreads through the bloodstream to
other parts of the body. Symptoms of AIDS begin appearing. Because the
immune system is significantly destroyed, the person is susceptible to a
variety of infections, some a nuisance but others life-threatening.
Cancers may develop, especially lymphomas (lymph node malignancies) and
Kaposis sarcoma. As the brain becomes infected, approximately half of
AIDS patients develop severe neurologic disease with dementia (loss of
higher brain functions). Death occurs.
IMPORTANT: Representative
symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have
all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed.
Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of AIDS on your own. Only
a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think
you may have AIDS or have been exposed to AIDS, visit a healthcare
professional promptly.
What is the cause? Chlamydial infection is caused by the bacterium Chlamydia trachomatis.
How is it spread? Chlamydial bacteria are spread from one person to another person, usually only by sexual contact. A ONE-TIME sexual contact is sufficient to spread the disease.
How common is it? Chlamydial infection is one of the most common STDs in America. More than 4 million new cases are reported each year, but millions of more cases probably are not reported. Chlamydial infection is extremely common in Blount County. This infection is a disease of young persons, with most cases occurring in the 15-25 year age range. Among sexually active teens, approximately 15 per cent of females and 5-10 per cent of males are infected. If gonorrhea is also present, the chlamydial infection rate is approximately three times higher. Many teens are asymptomatic (free of symptoms), and the infected person does not know to seek medical help, but he or she spreads the bacteria to sex partners and the damage to the femaless reproductive tract continues.
What may be the symptoms?
| MALES (Partial List of Symptoms) |
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| FEMALES (Partial List of Symptoms) |
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| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of chlamydial infection on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you may have chlamydia or have been exposed to chlamydia, visit a healthcare professional promptly. |
What is the treatment? Antibiotics can effectively treat the infection. Early treatment is necessary to prevent lifelong complications.
What is the prevention? There is no vaccine for prevention. Prevention rests solely on personal responsibility:
Dont develop a chlamydial infection and risk permanent sterility. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
What is the cause? Genital herpes is caused by a virus, herpes simplex virus, type 2 (HSV-2). [NOTE: HSV-2 generally causes infections below the waist. A related virus— herpes simplex virus, type 1 (HSV-1)— generally causes infections above the waist, usually of the lips and mouth. HSV-1 infections— usually fever blisters or cold sores— are NOT considered sexually transmitted diseases, although they can be spread by kissing someone with active sores or blisters.]
How is it spread? HSV-2 is spread from one person to another:
A ONE-TIME sexual contact is sufficient to spread the disease.
How common is it? Genital (sex organ) herpes, caused by HSV-2, is common in America and in Blount County. Approximately 2 per cent of young persons and middle-aged women and up to 10 per cent of homosexual men are infected with HSV-2. Genital herpes usually begins in young adults, but reappears throughout life at all ages.
What may be the symptoms?
Genital herpes exhibits varying degrees of symptoms based on stages:
| MALES AND FEMALES: PRIMARY STAGE (Partial List of Symptoms) |
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| Any body site may become infected. In males, the penis is usually infected; in females, the cervix (opening of the uterus) is usually infected. Any break in a body surface (skin or mucous membrane) permits the virus to enter the body. At first, there may be fever, headache, malaise (sick feeling), myalgia (muscle pain), and lymphadenitis (painful lymph node enlargement). In the skin, blisters develop, which become crusted before disappearing. In mucous membranes, painful ulcers develop. |
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| Latent means hidden. As the skin and mucous membranes heal, the virus travels along nerves, where it remains for the rest of the persons life, ready to cause a recurrence at any time. |
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| Recurrence means re-appearance. Due to some event (for example, trauma, fever, menstruation, ultraviolet light exposure, sexual intercourse, or emotional distress), the virus moves from the nerves back onto skin or mucous membrane. During this time, the person may have no symptoms, but may unknowingly spread the virus to unsuspecting sex partners. Or, the person may have another bout of blisters and ulcers. Some persons have several recurrences per year. |
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| An infected mother may transmit the virus to her newborn infant as the infant passes through the birth canal. The newborn infant may develop HSV encephalitis (brain infection), a most serious condition from which 90 per cent of the infants die. |
| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of genital herpes on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you have genital herpes or if you have been exposed to herpes (especially if you are pregnant), visit a healthcare professional promptly. |
What is the treatment? There is no cure for herpes, but medication may reduce the severity of recurrences.
What is the prevention? No HSV vaccine is available. Prevention of genital herpes rests solely upon personal responsibility:
Dont risk a lifetime of suffering from genital herpes and dont infect your future husband or wife or baby. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
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| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of gonorrhea on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you may have gonorrhea or have been exposed to gonorrhea, visit a healthcare professional promptly. |
What is the treatment? A properly chosen antibiotic can completely cure gonorrhea. You can be re-infected each time you are exposed to the bacteria in the future, however.
What is the prevention? There is no vaccine for prevention. Prevention rests solely upon personal responsibility:
Dont risk permanent complications of gonorrhea, including sterility. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
What is the cause? Two types of serious infection of the liver may occur: hepatitis B, caused by the hepatitis B virus (HBV), and hepatitis C, caused by the hepatitis C virus (HCV).
How is it spread? Either type of hepatitis can be spread from one person to another in any of these ways:
A ONE-TIME contact is sufficient to become infected.
How common is it? Hepatitis is a major health problem. In America, 1.2 million persons carry HBV, and can infect others; up to 4 million persons carry HCV, and can infect others.
What may be the symptoms?
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| When HBV or HCV infects
the body, death of liver cells occurs. Symptoms depend upon how much of
and how fast the liver dies and the bodys response to the liver death.
Many symptoms may be present, and may be confusing even to a well-trained
physician. Some persons have no symptoms at all; some, a mild flu-like
illness; and some, acute hepatitis, with jaundice (yellow discoloration of
the skin) and other symptoms of a severe infection.
Some persons with hepatitis recover completely. Some persons die with the infection soon after becoming ill. Some persons develop chronic disease, and may experience one or more of the following: becoming a carrier, always able to infect other persons; cirrhosis of the liver; bleeding from varicose veins of the esophagus, associated with cirrhosis; liver cancer; and liver failure, with death. |
| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of hepatitis on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you may have hepatitis or if you have been exposed to hepatitis, visit a healthcare professional promptly. |
What is the treatment? There is no specific treatment (such as an antibiotic), once hepatitis is diagnosed. A skillful physician can reduce symptoms and the severity of the disease.
What is the prevention? There is a vaccine against hepatitis B. There is immune globulin, which can be given early after exposure to prevent infection from that single exposure. Prevention rests upon personal responsibility:
Dont risk lifelong complications of hepatitis B or C. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
What is the cause? Human papillomavirus diseases are caused by a virus— the human papillomavirus (HPV).
How is it spread? HPV is spread from one person to another usually by sexual contact. Cells infected with HPV are shed from one person and picked up on the skin or genital tract lining of another person, causing that person to become infected also. An infected male or female may have living HPV for years without any symptoms, during which time he or she unknowingly spreads the virus to his or her sex partners. A ONE-TIME sexual contact is sufficient to spread the disease.
How common is it? HPV disease is one of the most common STDs in America and in Blount County. In America, approximately 1 million new cases of HPV infection are known to occur each year, but the true number of infections is probably much higher. Up to 30 per cent of females in some areas are infected with HPV, although many of them dont know they are infected.
What may be the symptoms?
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| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of HPV infection on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you have been exposed to HPV, visit a healthcare professional. |
What is the treatment? There is no easy cure, such as taking an antibiotic. Treatment depends upon removal of the HPV-infected tissue from the infected sex organ. Such removal may include surgery or destruction of the infected tissue by laser or freezing. Since the infection is chronic, multiple expensive treatments over many years may be required to prevent cancer. The treatment can cause a condition, called INCOMPETENT CERVIX, which causes the opening of the cervix not to be tight enough to keep the developing baby inside the uterus, and miscarriage (death of the baby) may occur.
What is the prevention? There is no vaccine for prevention. Prevention rests solely on personal responsibility:
Dont risk a lifetime of HPV infection and its complications. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
What is the cause? Syphilis is caused by a bacterium, Treponema pallidum.
How is it spread? In older children and adults, syphilis is contracted almost exclusively by sexual contact. In newborn infants, syphilis is contracted by the baby passing through an infected birth canal during delivery. A ONE-TIME sexual contact is sufficient to spread the disease.
How common is it? Syphilis is common in America and in parts of Tennessee, but is fairly uncommon in Blount County.
What may be the symptoms?
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Skin or a mucous
membrane (a covering of any body surface not covered by skin) may become
infected, if it comes in contact with syphilis bacteria. Because syphilis
is a STD, genital (sex) organs, anus, mouth, and pharynx (throat) are
infected most commonly. Syphilis begins as the primary stage, and, if
untreated, passes into other stages. Symptoms depend upon the stage:
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| IMPORTANT: Representative symptoms are listed for information only. If infected, you may not have all of the listed symptoms, or you could have other symptoms not listed. Do NOT try to diagnose or exclude the diagnosis of syphilis on your own. Only a qualified healthcare professional can make this diagnosis. If you think you have syphilis or if you have been exposed to syphilis, visit a healthcare professional promptly. |
What is the treatment? Antibiotics can successfully treat the infection. Early treatment is necessary to prevent serious complications, including neurosyphilis.
What is the prevention? There is no vaccine for prevention. Prevention rests solely on personal responsibility:
Dont risk serious complications of syphilis. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
How many times have you heard the term safe sex? If youre like most teens, youve heard it so often you probably think you know what it is.
If you ask a group of teens what safe sex is, most of them will say that it is sex protected by a condom. This answer is wrong, but its understandable why they will give the wrong answer. Through a combination of political correctness, desire to use the most expedient method of protection available, and through ignorance, the government and the news media have spread the message that safe sex equals sex with a condom. This message is a misrepresentation. While sex with a condom is safer sex, it certainly is not completely safe.
While the government has been promoting the safe-sex-through-condom-use message, examine the statistics compiled by the same government. Following an intensive, multi-billion dollar federal government education campaign to persuade all Americans to wear condoms during sex, the following have occurred:
The government can claim little success in its condom-use educational campaign. We wont put all of the statistics here because they would fill up this Web site, but you know how to surf the Web. Check these statements out, if you dont believe us.
There is only one way to be sure of safe sex. Practice sexual abstinence (dont have sex) before marriage, marry someone you can trust, and demand that both of you remain faithful to each other during marriage.
Lets summarize the ways suggested for safe sex:
| SEX PROTECTED BY CONDOM | |
| Birth control (contraception) | Moderately effective. Frequent failures. |
| Disease prevention | Moderately effective. Frequent failures. |
| Advantage | Easily purchased. Relatively inexpensive. |
| Disadvantage | Frequent failures due to tearing, slipping off, or leaking of the condom. May not be available with you on a date. Absolutely no protection for skin not covered by the condom sheath. No protection against secretions passed between partners during foreplay. Small viruses may pass through tiny defects in the latex. |
| SEX PROTECTED BY BIRTH-CONTROL (HORMONE) PILLS AND INJECTIONS | |
| Birth control (contraception) | Very effective. Few failures, if taken properly. |
| Disease prevention | None— the purpose of this method is pregnancy prevention, and both the male and the female are fully exposed to infection during intercourse. |
| Advantage | Reliable only as a birth control measure. |
| Disadvantage | No protection against sexually transmitted diseases. Expensive. Requires prescription from a physician. Possible medical side effects. |
| SEX PROTECTED BY SPERMICIDES (NONOXYNOL-9) | |
| Birth control (contraception) | Relatively effective, if used correctly, but failures occur. |
| Disease prevention | Unreliable (if pregnancy can occur with the use of spermicides, so can infections). Advantages: Can be purchased without a prescription, relatively inexpensive. |
| Disadvantage | Protection against pregnancy and disease uncertain. May not be available with you on a date. Very messy. |
| SEXUAL ABSTINENCE UNTIL MARRIAGE | |
| Birth control (contraception) | Effective 100% of the time. No failures. |
| Disease prevention | Effective 100% of the time. No failures. |
| Advantage | Free— nothing to buy. Always with you on a date. No failures. When you marry: you have a clear conscience and freedom from guilt, shame, and bad memories. You have not ruined the ability for you and your spouse to have children. |
| Disadvantage | None. |
Compare the methods, and youll immediately recognize that sexual abstinence until marriage is the ONLY smart, safe sexual practice for you as an unmarried teen. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
STDs are spread by the act of reproduction— sexual intercourse. It should not be surprising that some STDs will interfere with your ability to bear children in the future.
The sad truth is that a thirty-minute sexual encounter in the back seat of a car with someone whose name you will not even remember next year can prevent you from having any children for the next thirty years. Thirty minutes of fun now in exchange for thirty years of heartbreak in the future— is it worth it?
The following are impairments of reproduction that may follow from some STDs:
Dont jeopardize your ability to become a parent in your future marriage. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR! Also, your sexual actions today can deprive your future spouse of having children. YOUR FUTURE SPOUSE AND YOUR FUTURE CHILDREN ARE WORTH WAITING FOR!
People use and abuse alcohol and other drugs because these chemical substances alter the way the mind (brain) functions. One of the mind alterations is impairment of judgment.
Males: With impaired judgment, a young man on a date becomes sexually more aggressive and may force sex— and, may even commit rape— which he would not do, if his judgment were not impaired.
Females: With impaired judgment, a young woman on a date may submit to sex which she would not do, if her judgment were not impaired.
Important warnings:
Dont ruin your life or someone elses life through the use of alcohol and other drugs. YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
Someone has said that a humans most powerful sex organ is located between his or her ears. That is, all sexual desire, all initiation of sex, and all refusal of or consent for sex begins in the mind (brain).
Pornography greatly increases the desire for sex. Visual images are especially powerful in causing a person to desire sex and even act out his or her desires by finding a sexual partner. Pornographys relation to sexual behavior is a classic example of mind over body.
If you are truly serious about remaining abstinent until marriage, you should avoid pornography completely. Soft porn and hard-core pornography are everywhere— on the Internet, in movies, on television, in magazines, in music, and in books.
Avoid pornography, and you will find it much easier to remain abstinent. Do not let popular celebrities with low moral standards drag you down to their level because YOURE WORTH WAITING FOR!
IF YOU SUSPECT YOU HAVE A SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE (STD), IT IS CRITICALLY IMPORTANT THAT YOU OBTAIN A DIAGNOSIS IMMEDIATELY AND RECEIVE APPROPRIATE TREATMENT. Prompt treatment of a STD may prevent serious, lifelong complications from developing.
These options are available to you in Blount County:
When you receive medical evaluation and treatment, all aspects of your visit are confidential (will not be told to your parents).
Pregnancy options: A common outcome of sexual activity in unmarried teens is pregnancy.
If you become pregnant, you have two options:
Pregnancy counseling: For help in diagnosing whether you are pregnant and counseling about options other than abortion, contact:
Assistance for unmarried pregnant teens: There is help for unmarried pregnant teens. The Florence Crittenton Agency, Inc., is a residential home where the pregnant teen can receive all medical care for her and her newborn infant through the University of Tennessee Medical Center, Knoxville; parenting classes; continuation of high school education; group and individual counseling, as needed; and drug rehabilitation, as needed. All room and board and medical care costs are provided. After your baby is delivered, you may keep your baby or you may place him or her for adoption. If needed, contact:
Sexual matters may cause emotional distress: You may be hurting emotionally, feel guilty, or be depressed because you have had sex, are or have been pregnant, have had an abortion, have or have had an infection, or for other reasons associated with sexual activity. Such feelings are not uncommon in teens.
Dont be ashamed that you have these feelings. But, dont let them linger or worsen into something worse, such as thoughts of suicide. There are many people and agencies ready to help you right now. Dont hesitate to ask for help. The main thing is get good help and get it immediately. Life is too good not to enjoy every minute of it.
Possible sources of help: We will not try to give you advice on how to handle your emotional distress, but we will suggest a few resources for you to receive help. You may think of other resources on your own.
WARNING FOR YOUNG MEN: If your sexual conduct results
in your becoming the father of a child (even if you are under 18 years old when
you fathered the child), the courts will require you to provide child support
for that child until he or she is 18 years old (and in some instances until he
or she completes college). Child support is presently 21 per cent of your income
for one child, and more for two or more children. Modern DNA technology can
prove without doubt whether you are the father.
ADVICE FOR YOUNG WOMEN: If you become pregnant, you will need
financial support for your child. The law provides for child support and expects
you to obtain this support from the father, rather than tax-supported welfare
rolls.
Legal financial assistance: If you do not have the money to pay for an
attorney, contact the State of Tennessee Child Support Division. This agency can
assist you in a paternity suit and in obtaining child support, at no cost to
you. The telephone number of the Blount County Child Support Division office is
981-2373.
IMPORTANT: BNHE does not offer
legal advice. Consult an attorney for legal advice and for any legal
proceeding you may wish to pursue.
WARNING FOR YOUNG MEN: You commit rape if you force
another person to have sex with you against that persons will. Rape can be
committed against females or males. Rape can be committed with or without the
use of a weapon. Impaired judgment due to the use of alcohol or other drugs by
you or the victim is not a legal defense.
No always means no: If the person you want to have sex with says NO,
you had better respect this protest. NO never means YES or
MAYBE If you dont understand the word NO, you may have many
years in prison to think about what NO means. In prison, you may also have the
opportunity of trying to convince your cell mate what NO means.
Prison sentence: Conviction of forcible (aggravated) rape can carry a
sentence of 15 to 60 years in prison. Even if you are a minor (less than 18
years old), you can be tried as an adult and receive the full prison sentence.
Advice for a rape victim:
WARNING FOR YOUNG MEN: You commit date rape if you
force sex with a date, or with someone you know, or with someone you meet in a
social setting (such as a party) against that persons will. Date rape can be
committed against females or males. Date rape can be committed with or without
use of a weapon. Impaired judgment due to the use of alcohol or other drugs by
you or the victim is not a legal defense.
No always means no: If your date says NO to having sex with you, you
had better respect this protest. NO never means YES or
MAYBE. If you dont understand the word NO, you may have many
years in prison to think about what NO means. In prison, you may also have the
opportunity of trying to convince your cell mate what NO means.
Prison sentence: Conviction of date rape typically carries a sentence
of 8 to 30 years in prison, but in some cases conviction may carry the full
sentence of aggravated rape (15 to 60 years in prison).
Even if you are a minor (less than 18 years old), you can be tried as an
adult and receive the full prison sentence.
WARNING FOR BOTH YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN: A male may mix a
date-rape drug in his dates drinks. These drugs cause the date to lose
consciousness, at which time the male rapes his defenseless date. Unfortunately,
the drugged date may die or sustain severe brain damage from the drug.
Advice for date-rape victims:
Rape
Sexual Assault Crisis Center
Call:
522-7273 (24-hour crisis line).
Web site: www.cs.utk.edu/~bartley/sacc/sacc.html
IMPORTANT: BNHE does not offer
legal advice. Consult the district attorney general, in conjunction with a
parent or both parents, for legal advice and for any prosecution you may
wish to pursue.
Date rape